Anonymous asked: I met you one day at a con and and i was kinda sad because you came off as a little snarky and rude and it might have been because you were in a bad mood or something but yeah ok sorry youre probably really nice actually but it was awkward, im awkward ok bye ;-;
well it’d have been nice to know what con it was and then I could clarify why I might have been rude, instead of coming to me on anonymous telling me how sad you are that I was (I mean that in itself is pretty rude. You’ve no idea what the circumstances of the situation were and you didn’t even bother clarifying what was going on, so maybe I was entitled to respond that way? I don’t know.) I don’t recall ever being mean to anyone unless they’d been pestering me, and even so I don’t recall ever having to put myself out to do that. Otherwise, I’ve had three cons that I’ve attended in the past that turned out to be horrific for me emotionally, and many a times at those conventions I chose to be social only with two or three very close friends of mine as I tried to recover from some jarring events. It was very hard to be social at those specific cons because of the issues burdening me at the time, and I may or may not have put off a few people who were perhaps strangers who wanted to socialize with me, but I was simply not in the state to do so. In these circumstances i typically don’t remember those small altercations, as my mind as a whole was elsewhere to begin with.